The Secret to Lasting Love | Eli J. Finkel | TED

Social psychologist Eli J. Finkel has spent decades studying what makes partnerships successful. In a practical talk drawing on lessons from pop culture, he explores why so many of us struggle to be true to ourselves in our relationships — and what the happiest couples do differently. (Recorded at TED2026 on April 16, 2026)

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